Saturday, April 07, 2007

Wow, so interesting. I like this discussion, this blog is so active. Must thank Siying! :-)

Good to see Dilys, Jiaho, Jaymie (right?) etc posting. Who is the prev one?

Very true Jaymie. Often, those girls who are not super beautiful know that, and they will, from young, try to build up their inner beauty. So very often these girls would be either very successful in their careers, studies, sports or whatever field. And they tend to have more qualities like compassion, kindness, diligence...

I know there are a lot of bimbo blonde jokes and I like to believe there are beautiful and smart girls too. I am just saying you are right, many girls who are super beautiful tend to be showered with attention since young and they may lack the opportunities to acquire qualities mentioned above. But not so pretty girls would have plenty of chances to do so.

So Jaymie and Siying are being true friends to you guys actually, by reminding you, when you are choosing a life partner, you really have to look beyond outer beauty. I guess you guys already know that for I have been informed by my close guy friends that chasing girls for fun before getting married involves only one criterion - must be hot. But when choosing life partner, then they have more to consider. Why else would a particular good friend of mine, who is good-looking himself, and had countless hot girlfriends in the past, remain unmarried, still looking for the right one?

Be careful about changing too many "hot" girlfriends too. The truly virtuous girls might also give you a pass, even though she may like you, because she may think you only like that type. You would really need a wife who is virtuous and smart you know, if you want to be successful. No need to remind, but here goes, "Behind every successful man, there is a woman." That woman cannot be someone who spends all her time in spas, or cannot be someone who can't hold her own while discussing your career options or handling finances etc. In fact, someone simpler will help you save a lot of money. Then you will live more comfortably too.

I also recall asking you all how many kids you want to have in future, suddenly struck me... haha, think it was during a CT session. Anyway for those guys who want kids, you have to choose someone who you think will make a good mother too.

Yup, so go ahead and gain life experiences now. When you are thinking of settling down, remember this discussion and what your true friends/ and tr have mentioned. And invite us to your weddings ya! :-)

tjmummy rocking off at 12:18 AM

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