Friday, April 06, 2007

whoa! posts have been flying here and there, my hands are ITCHY and i've decided to write sth.. :P pardon me for my not-so-good english coz i dun need lots of vocab to write scientific reports.. haha.. and i'm mugging apoptosis and cell signalling now.. so all i noe now are the different abbrev. of the different components.. :)

well, the point bout guys who only fancy pretty girls with the perfect figure.. i totally agree with that.. look at the couples on the streets.. you might see pretty girls with not-so-good-looking guys, but very seldom do you see guys with not-so-good-looking girls.. i've come to terms with it.. coz i believe it's in their blood.. it's an innate thing, almost like an animal instinct..

for myself, i'm definitely not on the pretty girl list.. it makes me feel inferior sometimes too, looking at girls out there who have the perfect figure and looks.. but on the flip side of the coin, i guess it has made me less superficial too.. as much as i want pple to look at my personality and inner beauty, i do the same to others.. i dun usually judge pple by their looks, unless you haf a super kiam-pa face.. hahaa!! my point is, looks are definitely impt, but if we girls are not blessed with it, we should look at it from another point of view.. count our blessings that we were able to grow in other areas in terms of values and thinking (physically too if you go for plastic surgery la!:P) if you're pretty, just be mindful not to abuse it.. if you're not, just let your personality and character shine.. it's a journey of building up our self esteem, as i always tell siying.. :) i'm still learning how to comfortable in my own skin..

putting it crudely, if guys are looking for pretty girls to be their gfs, and if they eventually marry them, i think the guys would suffer! haha.. if a girl is so obssessed with her looks, wat makes you think she'll do the laundry and dishes coz they kill her nails!? are you gonna wait for her for an hr just so that she can make her make up perfect? once or twice maybe, but more than that? i guess guys haf different standards when they're looking for girlfriends and wives.. guys our age are prob still going for looks, coz they're not out for a stable relationship.. it's the "we're still young! can afford to play around for a few more years!" kind of mentality.. haha.. i'm not attacking you LJ! i noe your kuan4, and i'm willing to embrace it coz you're my friend.. :) i'm just making a general statement.. :)

ok.. i think my post is less cheem than the others.. :P but wat i wanna say is that girls who are not born with the looks, just learn how to be comfortable with yourself.. there are alot of guys out there who are superficial, but there are many who're not too.. :) i like wat mrs goh said, that as long as we look clean and pleasent, it's good enuff.. as much as we wanna look better, we shudn't be too obsessed with it.. to tell the truth, i still dunno how to put on make-up! haha.. everytime i need to do it, i'll beg my sis to help me.. :P to me, looks dun last, coz we'll eventually all grow old and haf saggy skin and wrinkles and grow fat and haf ugly hair and ugly skin and ugly everything... but if you're able to see yourself as beautiful, no matter how fugly you may morph into in future when you grow old, you'll still see yourself as beautifuL! well, that would definitely make me very happie in future when i sit on my rocking chair.. :)

ok i better go back to mugging.. oh btw, LJ! my senior's a MSU finalist you noe! contestant no. 6, tay yiming.. haha.. she's the hot girl in school with never ending legs.. and NO i'm not going to intro you to her coz she's taken! :) haha..

so come on girls! we shudn't let men make us feel inferior coz we're not pretty enuff, but we shud make them feel inferior coz they're so superficial! ahhaha.. :P

jay rocking off at 11:46 AM

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